If you attach your heart to worldly matters, they will eventually shatter it. But when you attach your heart to Allah, you will never have to worry about it being broken.
Girls, remember that only in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find peace. So no matter what seems important in this world, no matter how much you feel that you need not be left out over something seemingly important, please know that even if you don't commit to it you'll lose nothing. There is no need to be loved and adored by people if Allah detests the very look at you. It's all in your niat.
Say your praises and your syukur whenever you feel proud over something unrelated to your getting to jannah, for whenever you feel smug or cocky you are getting one step closer to the fire. Nauzubillah.